Comtesse
Lily DeVaux

Do you feel drawn to giving away control (submission, obedience, surrender) in an erotic or ritual context?*

Does the idea of being commanded, trained, or guided by a Dominant feel exciting or meaningful to you?*

Do you feel curiosity or excitement toward receiving physical sensation such as spanking, impact play, scratching, or controlled pain?*

Does being physically restrained (rope, cuffs, chains, immobilization) or restraining someone else arouse or intrigue you?*

Would you enjoy consensual verbal humiliation, roleplay of inferiority/superiority, or degradation games (being called names, made to serve, laughed at)?*

Does the idea of worshiping (feet, body, clothing, aura, energy) turn you on?*

Would it excite you to be treated as an object, toy, doll, piece of property, or tool for pleasure?*

Does the idea of tribute, financial gifting, or monetary control feel arousing, liberating, or spiritually meaningful?*

Would you like BDSM to include rituals, symbolic acts, or sacred practices (kneeling, offerings, meditation, mantras, ceremonial initiation)?*

Do you feel curious about using BDSM to explore your darker emotions, fears, shame, or taboos in a safe container?*

Would you like BDSM to serve as a tool for healing trauma, reclaiming power, or transforming personal wounds into strength?*

Does the idea of receiving intentional care after a scene (cuddling, grounding, affirmations, energy healing) feel essential or meaningful to you?*

Does being watched (naked, in play, performing rituals, or sexual acts) feel exciting?*

Do you feel arousal or curiosity about watching others engage in erotic, kinky, or ritual play?*

Would you be open to BDSM scenes happening in social spaces such as dungeons or swingers clubs, where others might witness?*

Do you feel interest in group play or serving/being served within a collective structure?*

Would you enjoy embodying or interacting with animalistic roles (puppy, kitten, pony, prey/predator) in BDSM play?*

Do you feel curiosity about roleplay with archetypes or alternative identities?*

Would you enjoy engaging in digital or remote BDSM practices (tasks, rules, video sessions, messaging protocols, online financial domination)?*

Would you like to explore intense or risky play (fear play, psychological mind games, needle play) under strict safety?*

Do you feel drawn to exploring longer-term dynamics of ownership and devotion?*